So it has been one freaking long day

Things I learned today:

1) know it alls tend to know social skills LEAST OF ALL

2) know-it-alls don't have a lot of friends

3) bossy people will often be stuck doing just about everything by themselves cuz heck if I'm going to do something and you're going to nitpick over how I did it? Congratulations... you just won yourself more work

4) people who masquerade as being humble and needing your help? maybe I should add about that they constantly use excuses and complain as to why they can't handle something themselves? Well quite frankly that *is* often true BUT when you use the same blasted excuse for over a year... it's up to you to fix it. If you don't have a bio-chemical or physical ailment... if it is an EXTERNAL factor... divorce that factor from your life. Then stop whining to everybody about why your life sucks.

4a) when you act entitled and EXPECT people to help-- chances are that they won't

4b) failing to show gratitude for those that DO give of their time, money, and emotional resources is a massive catalyst in them not helping you anymore

4c) the people that help you despite these things? YUP YOU ARE WALKING ALL OVER THEM BECAUSE THEY DON'T HAVE THE COURAGE TO TELL YOU NO!